Scott,
Your right it is a torque formula: Torque = Force x Distance. Makes sense because a Force in lbs x Distance in Feet = Torque in Ft Lbs. Bottom line is that it won't tell Steve what he wants to know. In you example above, assuming no WD bars, the longer the extension, the more weight is transferred from the front axle to the rear axle. In fact, if you made the extension long enough it would ovecome the weight of the truck on the front axle and lift the nose off the ground. At that point ALL the weight of the truck and the tongue would be on the rear axle.
This is bugging me!!!!!
Dave