Jason-What you are doing is good-very good. I traveled almost 21,000 miles in 7 months with the camper in the bed of my 3500 and a small trailer on back. The truck did all the milage over GVW weith the load on (11,620 lb axle scale weight plus the trailer). I would only let the overdrive in only on the flats, over 60-62 mph with no head winds. The trans worked great the entire trip and we crossed the continental divide 9 times. Do get a Exhaust Temp Guage installed because that will tell you what the engine is doing before the trans temp and engine coolant temps begin to rise. If the EGT's start to rise, drop speed and get out of overdrive. Way to many people try to drive in od with a load on between 48-60 mph, and try to accelerate at these low speeds and rpm's, and I believe that is what is tearing up the torque converters. Good Luck- Enjoy The Ride!