Ok John, not sure if you got this figured out, but here are the pictures I promised...
I do now remember there are two orange w/black tracer wires going to the headlight switch. On our 2005, you need the wire that terminates at pin #2.
Here is another shot of the wire:
I would agree with cerb, the gauge lights are brighter than the IP lights, but if you hook them up to the dimmer on the OE switch, they are very tolerable.
Also for what it's worth, here are is the pink w/yellow wire that was mentioned to pick up switched 12V from. As mentioned, the loom is on the left side of the steering column, and the wire actually feeds the power windows in the driver side door (works on accessory, or ignition on). I tapped into this for my electric seat warmer hook up, something you probably don't have to worry about in AZ. :-laf
When I installed my gauges, I was able to pick up switched 12VDC power from the overhead console since I was using the windshield mount pod, and also grounded the gauges using the ground point in the overhead console. I used the same ground for the light and gauge power and I've had no issues. I did use separate sources for the light and gauge power though. The scotch lock you see on the orange w/black tracer wire is run up the a-pillar and over to my gauges.
I got some more pictures, but I'm having trouble getting them to upload tonight. If these don't help, please let me know, I will try to post the others.
Good luck.