First, I would think about a 10K potentiometer would give the low resistance needed for cold operation, but have enough total resistance to effectively be out of the circuit at it's maximum setting of 10K, eliminating the need for a switch.
10k isn't enough. I attached a plot of total resistance vs. temperature for various resistors in parallel with the IAT sensor. As you can see, a 10k pot in parallel effectively bounds your IAT reading at a minimum of ~90°F. This is way too warm for a cold start. Even a 100k ohm resistor in parallel has a noticeable impact on the total resistance at cold temperatures. This is why I recommend a switch to completely remove the parallel resistor (infinite resistance).
Notes on reading the attached plot:
Recall the ECM is expecting a specific IAT calibration. Pick an actual IAT temperature and compare the resistance of any altered curve to the stock curve to back out what temperature the ECM sees. For example, an actual IAT temperature of 50°F with a parallel resistance of 20k ohms is equivalent to the stock circuit at ~80°F.
Now that would be nice, I didn't have any of those available at the local electronic parts store or I certainly would have gone that route.Most potentiometers ALSO can be found that include their own off/on switch - so it would be easier to just use a single control for both functions...