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After buying my son a low-cost electric guitar several years ago for Christmas and watching him get serious about his mysterious musical talent (must have been the mailman?), which I greatly admire, I noticed his interest was waning lately.



Talking with his friends in his "band", I soon confirmed what I suspected: he had long ago outgrown the quality of that guitar. I tried to find a better amp a couple years ago, but screwed up with a used amp that cuts out when he plays performances (more volume).



When he raced motocross for 10 years, I always told him that once he could outride the bike's abilities, we would move him up to a better one (aside from physically outgrowing the bikes, of course). That was 13 motorcycles ago and countless thrilling Championships on used bikes we built-up together. Great memories and experiences and time together.



He never asked for a new or different bike. Never complained. It was something I could see for myself when it became necessary. Now it was time to address his other talents and interests. But I'm a musical zero, making this much more difficult for me.



This time, with help in choosing from his musical friends, I gave him something for Christmas which will provide a lifetime of enjoyment every day: A genuine Gibson Les Paul. It is absolutely, 100%, American-made beauty and plays even better. He may never get another birthday or Christmas present from me, at least until I finish paying for this one, but quality came first this time.



My reward is the sound of great rock 'n roll guitar licks coming from his room once again. His passion for playing is back! And I LOVE it! I can't imagine stifling musical talent if you or someone you care about has it. It is a gift God did not see fit to waste on me and I hold those who have it in the same awe as someone who can rebuild an automatic transmission, or something like that. But that doesn't diminish my love for listening to live music.



The Big Bonus: He likes and plays the same '70's rock I love so much. No modern funk punk junk! And he takes requests!! :D



This is just musing-to-myself type of post as I sat here posting on TDR and listening to him play... couldn't help but congratulate myself for choosing well this time. There is sooo much techno-junk out there these days, mostly soon-to-be-obsolete gizmos, that gift giving has become quite a crap shoot and I'm not very good at it since I don't like techno gizmos.



This is something that finds it's way into his hands every day as he works on homework or just relaxes or challenges himself to learn something new and more difficult.
 
I can relate. My daughter is 9. She has been taking voice and piano lessons for about 2 months. She already sings and plays a number of songs. I am just in awe because I couldnt carry a tune if I had a bucket. So it is time to drop a wad on the piano/keyboard. This is something she will do for the rest of her life.
 
Thanks for the kind words, guys!

EWalshak, that is very cool! Once she masters the keyboard, the sky is the limit. So much can be done on the piano/keyboard. And being able to sing is very special and a real bonus. Make sure she gets whatever she needs to pursue that.



There was an 8th grade girl at my son's school a couple years back who was an amazing musician! If it was made of brass, she could do wonderful things with it. Especially the saxaphone. She was so cute to watch, too: She would get so "into it" that she lost herself completely in her own musical world. Especially when playing some Blues. She'd start to play, and, after a few moments, close her eyes, kick her shoes off, and dance, tap, and sway barefoot all over the stage pouring her little heart out on that big ol' sax. Man, was she good! She was also very shy and seemed almost embarrassed at the end of the number like she only then remembered there was an audience. That girl is going places!



My younger son recently was selected to represent his school in the State Opus Honor Choir. His choir performances are always during my work schedule and I have only once ever gotten to watch and hear him sing, and that was a long time ago. He usually does at least one solo part in each choir performance.



(His big brother says he will let him in the band if he ever gets his voice to stop changing. :-laf )



I have entertained the notion of finding a decent used bass guitar for him, but he admits his attention span for learning new things, other than video games, is abysmal. :rolleyes: Take him to Best Buy or Walmart, and he quickly disappears. I invariably find him at the Guitar Hero display, usually with a fair-sized crowd gathered 'round, racking up some incredible score on the "expert" setting. Everyone, including his guitar-playing older brother (never big on praise for little brother) says he is absolutely unbeatable on that video game guitar. Go figure...



But both sons have definite music talent while mom and me have zip. How does that happen? The younger (singer) definitely has his mother's powerful and penetrating voice. She could wake the dead. Not so much with volume, but with some strange, penetrating, laser-like voice projection quality. Wyatt has that, too. But, unlike his mom, he can use it to sing on key and doesn't need a microphone.



In both cases, their teachers from kindegarten on up have made a point to let their mom and I know that they have real talent that deserves support.



My buddy has been playing in bands for 30 years and said the same thing when the oldest, Skyler, was real little and I bought him a kid's acoustic guitar. Tim was teaching him a few chords and simple songs while I was target shooting out back. I came in and Tim said "Check this out". He took the guitar and twisted all the tuning keys randomly and handed it back to Sky and said "Tune it. " The kid did each string in a matter of moments and handed it back to Tim, who then put an electronic tuner on it to test it. Every string was dead-on. "And he can do it every time!" Tim said. "I don't know if you appreciate how hard that is, but every musician in the world, including me, wishes they had what he has: Perfect pitch. Very few do. "



He used to sing very well, too. Then he got braces and seldom opens his mouth to smile, much less sing... Hopefuly, he remembers how to do both once the braces are gone.



I tell the boys I am counting on them to be the next Van Halen brothers and to make sure their old man gets backstage passes, not to mention being well cared for in my old age! :D
 
The best part is you never gave up on your son, and also did not pressure him. You let it come naturaly,with a little help. that is wonderful. Good luck to the both of you.
 
SRath thanks for the wisdom and encouragment. I know later on In life I will look back and be glad I helped her pursue this. As you have described, its almost hard to put into words the pure joy my wife and I have when she sings. She has already had opportunity to do some solo's at church and other events and its almost enough to make a grown man sweat from the eyeballs if you know what I mean.
 
A gift thats worth listening to...

Scott, I am right in your same life's quandary... . my dad played all sorts of instruments (mostly B-flat trumpet) and read and transposed music, played in bands of all sorts... marching bands, symphony orchestra, church choir, you name it he played in it. My Mom was very musical and sang always and enjoyed music. So my older Sister (teaches piano, violin, guitar) and youngest Sister (awesome vocalist) got wonderful musical abilities. WHat did I and my other Sister and Brother get? Zero, Zip, Nada, Bupkus, a total shutout of musical abilities or talent. My son Will has modest guitar abilities and my daughter is taking after her Grandfather. SO enjoy your son's musical abilities. Its weird how this all works!



Ken
 
SRath, keep up the support. It always puts a smile on my face when the younger
generation appreciates the great rock from the late sixties and seventies. My best
friend in college had a Les Paul (most of my housemates were in a band) and it
is truely an American classic. Music is so much better for kids than video games,
and you're right, they will have an art and skill that lasts the rest of their lives.
 
I am so glad my two boys (15 and 12) are in band, choir, and do the school plays. Music touches your life from the day you are born until you die. I was in choir and band in MS and HS, then played 5 years in college. It has been proven over and over that music helps your brain learn better. Some look at me and doubt it, but it's true!:-laf Also, music scholarships are way more available than sports scholarships. I graduated HS in 1982 and still keep in touch with several of the people I was in band with, even more now thanks to Facebook. There might be times when you have to pull a "father knows best" to keep them going, but it will be worth it. As bheithing said, it is cool when the kids on the band bus are singing Journey, Boston et al. I had know idea that they paid any attention to that music.



And for those of you who don't play an instrument, a quote from my dad: "My wife plays piano, my son plays French horn, and my daughter plays the flute. I play the stereo. " Words to live by!:D



And one more thing, at least for you with boys: how many cute girls are on the football team?;)
 
Miss Iowa inspires

Those Cactus Cuties are amazing!! I had to watch video after video! Thanks, pullya! There's nothing quite like watching and listening to young talent.



The Iowa Hawkeyes had a special "Hayden Fry Day" celebration in honor of their former football coach this past fall. My son went to it and got to see Charlie Daniels. What really amazed him, though, was the special guest Charlie had on stage with him...



"Dad, she's not only gorgeous, that girl can really PLAY a fiddle!!"



YouTube - Miss Iowa 2009 Anne Michael Langguth playing Charlie Daniels Band ~ Devil Went Down to Georgia



Me? I even have trouble playing the stereo, AMink! Those doggone shiny little CD records they sell these days don't sound worth crap on my turntable... :eek: :D
 
My son, Trapper, is eight and has been playing guitar for a year. When we asked him a year ago if he'd be interested in guitar, he said no. We've always let him make his own choices, but I did preasure him into guitar knowing he'd enjoy it if he just gave it a chance. We signed him up for lessons with a local instructor. This guy has patience that I can not begin to understand. After my sons first lesson, his instructor told us that he is a natural.



A year of lessons has gone by and I am completely amazed. He and I have been looking for electric guitars online for a while now. He has been undecided until I showed him the Gibson line of guitars. He said he likes the look of the Les Paul, but it's too expensive. :confused: Then he saw an SG. He said, that's the one I want but I want to start with an Epiphone SG cause it's cheaper then move up to a Gibson SG then maybe a Les Paul when I'm alot older. I couldn't believe my ears, someone in my family actually has logic and he's only 8.



Anyway, my son thanked me the other day for talking him into guitar. We bought him an Epiphone SG last week and he's hardly put it down since.
 
Your son has excellent logic skills and sense of value!

My son has tried Epiphones in the guitar store before. He said some of them sound very good, but you just have to try several since they seem a bit inconsistent from one to the next. I suspect the same probably holds true for all guitars. Just personal preferences.

If you found one that sounds and plays good, it will give you your money's worth, I'm sure. It really feels good when you find something that ISN'T a video game that they use and enjoy all the time, doesn't it?

The last time he was so enraptured with something I gave him was either when I customized the Remington 1100 I bought some 35 years ago and passed it down to him for his trap shooting team, or when I moved him up from a KTM 65cc to a Yamaha YZ85.

He looked so small on that used YZ back then, but boy could he ride it! Not long after, as season was ending and winter coming, I walked in the house into the middle of a fairly heated argument between him and his Mom. Seems the boy wanted to keep that new-to-him racebike, his pride 'n joy, upstairs in his bedroom for the winter... Mom just did not understand... ;) :D "Tell him he can't do that!! Tell him!!" I just kept on walking and hid my smile...
 
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