The time delay issue is always ignored in internet discussions by those who own large fifthwheels with expensive optional hydraulic disc brakes. BG Smith is the first and only honest owner I have ever run across who acknowledges that fact on a website.
It is always present in every trailer hydraulic braking system regardless of manufacturer, design, components, or wishful thinking by the buyer although some may respond faster than others. The reason is the braking system has no line pressure under static conditions. When the driver calls for braking with his right foot on the pedal the hydraulic pump at the trailer is activated and begins pumping up pressure. That requires an amount of time. It is simply not as fast as manually pushing a plunger in the master cylinder with your right foot.
Hydraulic trailer brakes are the absolute best braking systems available without a doubt. They are capable of locking all four or all six wheels instantly --- after a delay. It is that delay that I could not tolerate. Towing at 60 mph on a Los Angeles or Chicago or Atlanta freeway or on I-15 through Las Vegas your truck and trailer will travel a long distance between the time you step on the brake pedal and the time you can lock the trailer brakes. That is the reason I declined that feature when I ordered my HitchHiker back in early '07. I ordered the Dexter HD brakes which are, IIRC, 2 1/4" by 13" drums. They are very powerful drum brakes that apply instantly although they are not as powerful as discs.
I pulled a couple of heavy Alfa fifthwheels with hydraulic discs when I was transporting. I didn't like them at all. Towing in heavy traffic I was nervous enough to hold my right index finger on the big red manual override button on my BrakeSmart controller when traffic closed in. I could punch that button and look back in my mirrors and see smoke billowing off each side of the Alfa but I couldn't live with the delay.
Now, after making my hydraulic disc brake speech, back to the OP's question.
Your largest problem may be the truck brake controller not the trailer's hydraulic brake system inherent delay. With a good brake controller the effect of the hydraulic brake delay can be minimized.
I believe the OEM optional brake controller in new Rams is an inertia sensing controller. It is worthless if I am correct. The reason I say that is in order for the OEM brake controller to apply trailer brakes it must first sense negative acceleration. The truck has to create negative acceleration or deceleration by itself with a heavy trailer behind it before the brake controller can sense braking and apply trailer brakes. Bad design. It is the same lousy design used by Tekonsha in their sorry Prodigys and the forerunner which name I have forgotten as well as other inertia sensing trailer brake controllers.
The fix is to install an aftermarket MaxBrake and have the dealership disable the useless factory controller. See Don Dyer (Domehead)'s and my article in the recent issue of TDR magazine for instructions.