Russel..
Missed the 2nd and 3rd pages with my last..
On that breakage.. I would make a guess... when I put on my kit, on the front only, I noted that even while I did per the instructions, the shocks on mine or near fully extended when trailer is level, but when I jack it up to connect, and it goes front up, the shocks hit the maximum travel, and that means the rear axle gets more load, as the equalizer is effectively locked out in that case, but it is pretty front up to hitch in my driveway due to it not being level.. so I'm not too concerned.
In your case, I'd look real careful at the travel of the shocks in the various conditions of trailer tilt, being as you have a much heavier rig than mine, if you were to hit the limit of travel on the shock, it could apply considerable force to the mounting bracket beyond what it was designed to handle, and perhaps break the weakest spot. since both sides are consistent I think that spot is now known...
I might also suggest you just go with the front axle for shocks, as they will affect both axles for dampening from the action via the equalizer.. one can't oscillate independent of the other in any case.