Well I have been talking about this change since we began our 14,000 mile trip across the country with our 17k fifth wheel. A while before the trip I changed my gears from factory 4.10s to 3.73s for the trip and the rest of our travels. We figured out pretty quick how much of a mistake it was to switch. Through advice from other posters here I found out that Diesel Power Products sold a wide range of gears and I ordered a set of front/rear gears and installation kit. I had my local RAM dealer swap them out this week. I test drove it this afternoon and wow what a difference. As you can see I now turn 2000rpms at 70mph and that is exactly what I wanted. One interesting thing: the rear ring gear/pinion was AAM 11.5". The new rear gear is late model RAM with 11.8" ring gear.
RPMs and Speed with 19.5s and 3.73s
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Photo below is at 70mph with 4.30s
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Pinion on right is 4.30 and larger on left is 3.73
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Ring gear on top is thinner 3.73 and thicker on bottom is 4.30
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RPMs and Speed with 19.5s and 3.73s

Photo below is at 70mph with 4.30s


Pinion on right is 4.30 and larger on left is 3.73



Ring gear on top is thinner 3.73 and thicker on bottom is 4.30
