The process of discovery continues....
Yes.
If you find 12 volts are indeed present on one side of the socket for fuse #3 in the PDC, and you've verified the fuse is good, then reinstall the fuse and perform the following checks:
1. With the ignition switch OFF, disconnect the 50-pin connector from the ECM.
2. Using your voltmeter (or a test light), verify 12 volts are present at socket numbers 48 and 50 of the ECM's 50-pin connector. Use a straightened paper clip inserted into the socket if your voltmeter probe is too wide to enter and make contact down in the sockets. These two sockets are supposed to provide 12 volts to the ECM at all times (when the vehicle batteries are connected obviously).
3. Next turn the ignition key to the RUN position.
4. Again using your voltmeter (or a test light), verify you have 12 volts present at socket number 5 of the ECM's 50-pin connector. When 12 volts appear at this socket, the ECM turns on.
5. Turn the ignition switch OFF and reconnect the ECM connector.
If these checks pass successfully, then it's pretty safe to assume the ECM is toast. If any of the checks don't pass, then you probably have a wiring problem which you'll need to investigate further.
Please keep us posted.
Good luck,
John L.
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I had been working steadily at the tedious matter of opening up the wiring harness, careful to not cut wires with the razor blade and X-acto knife as I cut the tape closing the raceway.
The farther along I got, the more difficult it became, and that with all leads rearward disconnected from their points of connection and the fastening strap disconnected from the mounting point near the previous location of the lift pump. You can only pull so much harness up out of there and then can't get both arms in the available space.
Perhaps I was following intuition, or simply on the edge of a good whine; in realizing the wires continued to be hot as far as I went — including after S167 [which is plainly marked with characters on a shrink sleeve, for those interested in that bit of trivia] — I started to worry I would get the entire thing untaped and the wires would be hot to the end at the connector.
My mind was churning through that. I tried the connector testing again, using a paper clip again, and there was no voltage again.
I went back in the house to study the drawings. Realistically, I may have gone in the house to escape.

I was looking at the connector in your post, and looking at the connector in my paper manual and in my .pdf manual I got on the internet recently [... . interesting that you can get that now for free] and discovered that the preceding image has six (6) rows of 60 pins, and the images in my manuals here had five (5) rows of 50 pins.
That meant I was not supposed to be probing the row next to the bottom, I was supposed to be probing the bottom row. [It also explains why I said the wires were not red... . ]
Testing socket holes 48 and 50 my lovely, new, Sears test light glowed a bright, happy red.
So, back to what you were saying, it passed all those tests, so the ECM must be toast. I am so excited this is resolved.
I have to admit, it would never have occurred to me that the pin count could be different.
Where is that page from that you posted? Mine is from page 8W-80-40. Both my paper manual and the .pdf manual are that page number. These are from the 2001 Ram truck manual, volume 1. The back cover says 81-370-1008, if that is meaningful.
Also, wires 48 and 50 are red with a white tracer, though the tracer is just about impossible to see.