I'm not one thats hip on welding spiders. Are you sure the diffs are open. A 70 rear with trac lock will hold tight truck pulling. If it is ls and worn out, just add another disc to make it super tight.
I ran a detroit locker in the rear 60, but couldn't keep axels in it pulling. Went to a 14 bolt rear cause it was free, with ls, and open diff setups. I am running the ls for now until I get another detroit. Up front I am running a lockright, which goes into the stock open carrier. I have had no problems with this setup. Very happy with the performance.
I think(ie opinion) that welding weakens the cast, and weaken is not a good word for truck pulling. Your trying to weld cast to steel gears. Hard to do. If you weld them and then they break, then you start all over. If you want something cheap that will last, gather up lead balancing weights from a tire shop. Remove your diff carrier. Set it up with the axels shafts in the side gears. Cover one of the holes in the carrier with something to keep hot lead in the carrier. Then melt the lead, skim off the crap, then fill the carrier with lead. Then everything is locked together, but nothing is burned together. Several friends, including my brother run this in offroad trucks with 44" tires with good luck. Ususally if the lead fails, not much else in the diff is hurt, unless you drive it alot after the failure.
Michael