One thing to consider in your deliberations in what to choose should be the trade off.
With the manual 6 speed, how many times have you had to change out your brakes and what was the cost. How many time did you change out the clutch and what was the cost. On the long down hill run on a steep grade with a heavy load in the winter on ice, the ability to lock into a gear and hold a steady speed without braking.
With an automatic, no clutch do deal with but how many mile before you will be changing out brakes? On the long down hill run can you lock it up to a steady speed or do you have to keep touching the brakes?
Next question is MPG. Cost of fuel is hight these days. The old rowing box usually get a couple of miles better than the auto. Auto is better in freeway traffic jams. The manual is usually rated for a higher GVW.
How much towing, what kind of towing?
I have 157,000 and have 30% of my original factory original brakes left on the front rotors and 95% of my original rear drum shoes left. I still have my factory original clutch. When I pull, I'm usually in the 13,000 to 14,000 range but I will get up to 23,000 more often than not.
I have a friend that has an auto who used to kid me about having a short bed, saying it was a baby truck. He is on his 4th set of brakes and has not seen 100,000 yet.
Food for thought. Weigh the cost of repairs and frequency against your driving style and known data.
If you get a chance, take what every you normally pull with a manual and put it on the auto before you buy if you can and see how it feels going down the steepest grade you have done with your manual.
Food for thought.

Good luck on your choice. If you have not guessed yet, I think you ought to stick with the 6 speed.