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What do you enjoy the most since your retirement?
I've been retired for 21+ years and for me, it's the freedom. Freedom from flying, dirty hotel rooms, and greasy food, freedom from commuting, freedom from being responsible for employees/coworkers, freedom from deadlines and sales quotas, freedom from petty gripes and complaints from customers and employees, etc.. I can wear comfortable faded blue jeans, a tee shirt, and tennis shoes and no one cares.

Bill
 
I've only been retired for 3 years and for the most part, I'd have to agree with your assessment. The Travel mostly. I was on the road for 3 out of 5 days a week... driving to useless meetings mostly.

When my Dad retired he said "I don't know how I would have time to work" and since I retired I know what he was talking about. I've never been so busy just puttering around. Of course I now have my 28X48 man cave which was the first thing I did when I retired.
 
Bill, I am jealous as I deal with all the issues mentioned above on a daily, sometimes hourly basis.

Plus as Daimler grows (40% market share now and climbing) the parts shortages get worse as production demands everything. Be glad that you are watching from the sidelines.:D

Mike.
 
Only been retired 8 years. Because I live and work on the west coast, the crime was rising at the time where I lived that I moved the family 100 miles from work. Traveled that each way each day, but I didn't feel I might come home and finding her dead or sometime. 13 years of that takes a bit out of you. I worked in the oil industry and that was a 24/7/365 with rotation of everything. Your so consumed with work, it took over two years for the wife to say I finally calmed down. And after leaving that state (where everyone seems to want to be in your personal business) and living in the country, life is heaven each and every morning. Like this morning where I was watching the deer graze the wives garden while having my morning coffee. The biggest problem is where to vacation next. Heck, I'll think of that after cup #2.
 
I too have been retired for only a short time a little over 5 years now. And I agree with what Bill has stated about the stress of responsibilities for others and upper management pushing you for the results of your team.

What is the most enjoyable part of retirement for me is spending time with your grandchildren taking them on camping trips and vacations. Or like when your two year old granddaughter grabs your finger and say play with me grandpa pulling you to the floor with her. How can you say no to that? That is when you can appreciate your retirement years.

Jim W.
 
Jim W .. that's funny. My grand daughter wants me to talk to her father about getting her a car now, since she will be getting her licenses in 'two' years. Impatience like her father. But where he wanted a pickup, she wants a european sports car. Love her, but I not getting into this one.
 
Bill, What I enjoy the most since my retirement is getting up early, go for a long walk, have breakfast with my wife, drink coffee while reading the morning paper then deciding what to do for the rest of the day. What I do for the rest of the day is yard work and mostly working in my woodworking shop making a pile of sawdust.

I made the two birdhouses and donated them to a charitable shelter. An artist did the painting.

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Been retired 3 or 4 years now, I forget?? I like to do the things that need to be attended to, at my place and other family members. Im the so called Johnny-do-it-all around our family. FIL and I make plans most every Sunday at dinner as to what needs to be done with the cattle operation and I try to work in some of the things that I consider hobbies (if I have the time for Hobbies) What ever it is I get to work on it sure as hell beats the crap out of bouncing up and down the road, I thought that I would never get tired of driving and I still do take some drives now and again, but if I don't, I don't miss it!!

I go in twice a week to have breakfast with the guy's and shoot the Breeze for the better half of the morning if I have time to, if not it will give us something to talk about later we don't let each other get lost to long without stopping by to see whats up.

Penny always has something in the works that she wants, and I have to come up with some way of doing it she has me scratching my head so much that im going bald, she calls me MacGyver.

I exercise more in the winter, during the summer im to busy to do much exercising, most of the work I do is fairly labor extensive and that tends to keep pretty well in shape.

Probably sounds pretty boring to most but I like doing things for the folks that gave me the chance early in life to do things for them without having a stroke doing it.
 
I've only been retired 1 1/2 years but mine is similar to yours. No worrying about the new regulations, what do the employees under me need, what are they doing, what does my boss expect, no crazy deadlines requiring me to work day and night, no driving in heavy traffic 25000 to 70000 miles a year (unless I want to). Now we can spend the cold months anywhere we want (and the summer too).
Larry
 
Well I just retired "officially" last year. There are those who say I retired a few years ago.:) I turned 65 in Jan, so I guess it was time to go.

One thing has surprised me though. I still have this darn computer. I was in the computer business for over 30 years, and I just hate computers.

The biggest thing I DONT miss is the flying, although I'd figured out the last many years how to limit that substantially. Driving in traffic comes in second.
I do enjoy spending extra time with the grand kids. One of my little grandsons still thinks that john kerry shot me :) (long story). And Ill probably let that continue for a while more, but I should probably set him straight on that one pretty soon.
 
Bill, What I enjoy the most since my retirement is getting up early, go for a long walk, have breakfast with my wife, drink coffee while reading the morning paper then deciding what to do for the rest of the day.

Yes, I too am a "morning person". I'm up at least by 4 AM and on the computer while I drink my coffee. I walk two miles everyday (weather permitting) before sunrise and have breakfast with my wife. We live out in the country in the middle 35 acres surrounded by trees and open pasture that I maintain which keeps my busy. I also cut and split my own firewood using dead and diseased trees on our land. Yesterday, a neighbor rancher baled 30 big round bales of hay on our pastures while I cleared storm damage caused by a recent severe thunderstorm with my tractor and grapple.

Bill

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Well I just retired "officially" last year. There are those who say I retired a few years ago.:) I turned 65 in Jan


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How does one "officially" retire?

We were talking about this on my Birthday, I turned 61 this month and was asked when I plan to retire? I said that I thought that I had retired!! Was told that " Officially " retirement was when I started to draw my Social Security. I guess I could then " Officially " retire next year at 62.

I think that we have been programmed to look forward to retirement, if this is true I don't ever want to retire. I do as I please and like it that way, if its OK with the wife that has assumed the position of Boss, Foreman and Project Manager in the things that I do as I please. :-laf

When asked about retirement I must have had a look on my face. Later Penny and her Mother asked me about the look and if I was scared of getting old enough to draw SS? I don't care about the number that people pin on a person, im 61 and can out work most of the younger folks that are around me!! What was it then that put that look on your face my MIL asked? im just afraid of getting old and of not much use, not pulling my weight or having to call for Penny to help me put on my Depends. I enjoy watching our Children grow and raise their family and lives, but also feel sad that they don't need my assistance as much any longer.
 
Reading all this makes me feel very fortunate. I enjoy my work and don't look forward to retirement. To be honest, I'm 55 and my biggest worry is what I'll do when I can no longer perform the physical labor that is my livelihood. All you folks seem to have endured what is to me an excruciating way of life for many years in order to grow old enjoying what I see and do on a daily basis. I realize I have given up a financially secure old age, but I traded it for a lifetime of work I never dreaded. I think I got the better deal. Thanks guys, i feel better about myself now. I had begun to feel bad about my future. Now, not so much.
 
If your health holds retirement is the best time of life, Lots less pressure, control of your own schedule, less financial stress, doing things during the week when the crowds are less and never having to wear a neck tie again.
Those who say they wonder how they ever had to time to work have got it right, Particularly if you live in a rural area.
Spent the last week splitting and stacking firewood for winter since global warming has been such a failure in TN.
 
What do you enjoy the most since your retirement?
I've been retired for 21+ years and for me, it's the freedom. Freedom from flying, dirty hotel rooms, and greasy food, freedom from commuting, freedom from being responsible for employees/coworkers, freedom from deadlines and sales quotas, freedom from petty gripes and complaints from customers and employees, etc.. I can wear comfortable faded blue jeans, a tee shirt, and tennis shoes and no one cares.

Bill

I have been pondering this thread most of the day, while I was out cleaning the barn stalls, pig pen and mowing what amounted to close to 30 acres or as close to it as we can figure anyway and weed whacking what seemed to be miles of fence line, with the yards of the 4 homes now. I like how this thread has made me think about what I miss about my job, I do miss the freedom that driving gave me, I don't think that I could have taken the years of work if I had been under the watchful eye of a supervisor in a factory type setting, just the repetitive nature of some jobs would have sent me to the shop with a single round in a revolver. It may seem to some that driving and loading and dropping fuel is plenty repetitive and for the most part it is at both the ends of each trip. Same loading procedures same gas stations (they are all the same after awhile) but the drive is ALWAYS different, in you don't think so go and drive in So. Calif im sure that any sane person will change his thoughts about it being the same each time.

I also miss the people at work, some of us were more than just friends, more like family and that continues to this day with two of my Ex Supervisors moving and living near enough to us that I can add the mowing of their yard in the above calculation. Some of the co-workers are on their way to take a vacation with us (some were not as lucky as us and had to continue to work)

I kind of had the same things that you said you wont miss. We drove to disaster sights not fly to stay in some crummy hotel rooms (when we took a break) Food at disaster sights IS a disaster, commuting was all of 5 miles from my house to work for the last 20 of the 27 years of work, the first 7 years were a 63 mile each way for at least 4 days a week, I always put in 5 days if I could. I had no deadline just get it in the ground and return safely, but I did make sure that I was always at the top of the load done list, it made me more money and nobody could say that I didn't do my job. The petty gripes from co-workers didn't really bother me, it just meant that I as a driver trainer was doing my job, they didn't like some of the things that I had brought up and made some of the dangers of our work a little less. It made some of them mad as hell that they had to do things a little different but as I told them, One of the hardest things that I ever had to do was walk to the door of a friends house and along with my Supervisor tell his Wife and Children that their Husband and Father wont be coming home tonight. The gripes of the customers didn't faze me at all I don't understand most of their languages anyway, just smile hand them the paperwork take my coffee and leave. I had to wear a uniform and didn't mind that to much they paid for them, they cleaned them, Penny actually took care of the uniform, the uniform service sucked big time if I had to wear one it was going to look decent.

Now if its anything other than blue jeans (Levi's 501's) I dont most times wear them unless the wife makes me. :eek: I do wear shirts with collars and boots of some kind but they are NOT steel toed :) I was always clean shaven with a hair cut at work, now if it wasn't for our Daughter and Daughter-in-law having babies I still would have had my Duck Dynasty look going on.

For the ones that say they wont miss or aren't going to miss retirement, I would have to say you should at least give it a shot, if you don't like it (like I did the first year or so) you can go back to work. Like most have said on here it's nice to wake up and not have to grab coffee as you run out the door for work, now you can take your time and treat the significant other like she is supposed to be treated. Actually talk to family without time limits or do things that need to be done that cant be pushed off until the next week. At the first part of this I said that I was out cleaning the barn stalls, pig pen and mowing the yard. I like doing those things, I did them when I worked and they were a PITA because I had them AND work to do.

The best part of BOTH worlds is starting to arrive at the house, We always had parties to attend most every weekend at somebody's house. I my Ex Boss and another Pard have been away for a few weeks WITH NO TIME LIMITS on that because of WORK, and while we were out having fun my In-laws thought that I needed to throw a party and have a bunch of the folks new and old attend to listen to an OLD RETIRED FART sing and have some BBQ and Beer with us, WITH NO TIME LIMITS on how late or long the party will last.

BIG
 
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I,m not retired and wear blue jeans(sometimes faded) tee-shirt/wpocket and tennis shoes. Have two Great trucks to drive! Eat the best fruit and vegetables!
Do have to deal with some customers that are a pain and my Mom works for me so I'm not really the boss (I need a real employee);).
 
About 12 years ago, one of the guys I spent a year with walking through the Vietnam jungles with decided to see who was still living and what we were doing. He got many of us to meet once a year for 3 to 4 days somewhere in this country. (Very much enjoy running my Dodge on these trips.) We see something of that area, the wives became best of friends, and the best part is the general bull ***** each evening. Then disappear for a year. This year lower New York.

In a conversation for this trip, I asked my friend what the heck is he doing since he retired. After a short pause, the says his health is a little poor, so he takes it day by day.

The MOST IMPORTANT THING EACH DAY IS:
'Remembering to get out of bed first, THEN go to the bathroom' and not vice-versa. Later over coffee he plans his day, with his wives permission.

Just something all us old coots should remember, and keep in mind, in this, the happy times of our lives.
 
I was outsourced my last three working years. I did the same network engineering job on the banks networks, however it was not the same. The team work we had for years within the banks systems division was gone and it was all about making money for the outsource company and not the bank. So we bought a home 70 miles North of Seattle in a retirement community and I worked from home until I reached 62 and retired the end of June 2006, never looking or wanting to go back!

If I need extra beer money I work on boat electronics and electrical. The first two falls we traveled the Western States with the truck and a 5th wheel trailer. Then we spend 5 winters in Arizona until I signed up to go through the Yacht Club chairs. When that is done in Dec 2015 we will be off again in the winter to the Southwest to play in the sun. Health has been good until last month when I had a Saddle Pulmonary Emboli! And had my first ever sleep over in a Hospital for three days. So now I am on Warfarin for the rest of my life! I knocked on the door, but was turned back by a very good local ER staff!(my doctor was mistakenly treating me for pneumonia)

So each day, week, month or year is now a big plus. Listen to your body and seek help if things are not right. ER doc said that one of the smartest things I ever did in my life was coming to see him on the evening of June 26th!

I remember my mother saying that one day they got up in the morning and had found that they had gotten old!

I say you have 5 to 10 good years when you retire to enjoy life without having to go to work each day. More if you are lucky and less if you are unlucky. A good gene pool helps quite a bit.

One of the small mistakes I made was not having a newer truck when I retired. However everything we have is paid for! House, boat, truck, car, and rv. We never do anything that we can not pay for up front or as we do it, like 19 days on Maui the first of the year. We have a small local user friendly professional firm manage our investments.

I sleep well at night.

Like AnOldBiker above, I have spend the last three or four years locating fellow Coasties that were in Thailand in 1966-67 building and operating a Loran C navigation station. Out of 28, I have found 12 others that I have made contact with and 6 that have passed on.

SNOKING
 
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