ronsram1999,
I think you are missing the point. First of all, while the rule regarding posting prices is under the vendor participation section, it is ambiguous as to whether it specifically applies to vendors only, or to everyone in general. You go ahead and post all the prices you want. These guys choose not to post and that's their choice. If you really want to know a price, the phone is right there. If you can't afford a call, you probably won't pay for the upgrade. A PM costs even less than that, haven't done it? I'm not surprised.
Second, Bill Kondolay stuck pretty closely to the
informative site guideline and I got a pretty good idea of what he was trying to say. If I were buying a DTT upgrade tomorrow, and I had your concern, I'd talk with the installer and ask him, "Are you really going to take my transmission apart and then give me a price?", long before he ever started.
I'll go way out on a limb, and guess that you could probably describe your needs, have the installer drive your truck, and get a pretty accurate estimate and that in no way, would anyone go so far as take your transmission apart, then tell you the cost.
I have seen massdiesel work on transmissions in person. He shows amazing dedication and works well and above the call to get the job done right. You won't find a better mechanic anywhere.
Bottom line: if you're interested in a transmission upgrade, here's a bunch of guys on this thread that couldn't be happier with the DTT install done by massdiesel. If you really don't like the deal, don't buy one, no one is making you buy.
Matt