Gary,
This is odd. My understanding has long been that no dealer other than a Dodge dealer has or is willing to invest the sizable cost to have the Dodge-compatible computer hardware and unique Dodge-Cummins software. Our engines are made by Cummins regardless of end application but our Dodge software is reportedly different and unique. I wonder how the FL dealer is deciding to replace turbos, egrs, and dpfs. Have you had check engine lights and codes set?
A few early ISB6. 7 pickup engines were experiencing some fuel contamination in the crankcase and were showing overfull on the dipsticks but my understanding is that the cause was corrected several years ago with several reflash software changes. I have not heard of that condition in some time and never on a cab and chassis.
I have read that it is easy to create a false reading by quickly draining the engine oil and refilling without allowing adequate time for the old oil to drain completely. I don't know who or under what condition your engine oil was changed but would first seek to eliminate the incomplete drain issue before deciding an injector or other component was causing crankcase oil dilution. A bad injector on a 67k engine would be out of the ordinary.
How did your FL dealer perform reflashes? I didn't know they could. Mike Mullenax installed a reflash in my '08 C&C several years ago, '08 I think. As far as I know that was the only reflash issued. The reflash included lots of minor features and allowing long idle times was one of them IIRC. I have always let my idle whenever it was convenient but have never needed to allow it to idle for periods of an hour or more like I did my earlier 5. 9s. I can understand your need to let it idle for hours after heavy snows when you are out plowing. The C&C engine should tolerate that without problem according to what a Cummins engineer told me several years ago.
A free dpf won't hurt anything but as Mike stated above, the dpf is a symptom not a cause. If the dealer has already determined with satisfaction that you don't have fuel dilution my conclusion would be you don't have a problem. I would quit going to a dealer - they'll replace parts as long as FL will pay but replacing parts may not always be in your best interest.
I'd make sure future oil drains allow plenty of time to get a full drain, take a free dpf if FL wants to buy you one, then take that truck out and drive it under load at highway speeds as often as you can and try to minimize idle time.