Joe G. said it...
Take off the 3 hex-head (5/16"?) screws that secure the dust cover. Use a large flat-head screwdriver to turn the t/c tooth-by-tooth all the way around until you: A) find a drain plug, or B) end up where you started without finding one. A) = aftermarket t/c. B) = probably a stock one.
I went about 110K miles with the stock transmission. Power mods were #6 TST plate and 215 injectors. At 110K I put in a 1st gen DTT v/b (right after Bill K. started out on his own). That changed the shift points and raised the fluid pressures; it helped a lot. At 230K I decided that things were starting to slip a little, and put in a DTT master rebuild kit, t/c, v/b, and 4K GSK. The difference is night & day. Now the power gets to the wheels, and does so in the Cummins' optimum rpm range.
The key to a transmission's long life is 3-fold, I believe.
Quality & Workmanship of the transmission & its components
Proper service and fluid change intervals
How you drive it
A "lesser" quality (stock OR a lousy aftermarket job) transmission, parts, and installation will not last as long as the top quality ones that are frequently the source of much debate, but all seem to perform.
Leaving the ATF in for too long will subject it to too much heat, debris accumulation, and age/wear. Change the ATF regularly; it's cheap insurance. In some instances, you can even move from the expensive ATF+3 or +4 to Dexron III. I have changed to Dexron (2 changes now) with no effect on the transmission. 4-1/2 gallons per change adds up quickly in the wallet.
Drag racing should only be done when absolutely necessary: like when you're at a stop light and there's a 2-to-1 lane bottleneck about a 1/4 mile ahead. An aftermarket transmission will allow you to tow without slipping because of the higher fluid pressures and an efficient t/c. Both of those will keep fluid temps down, and that will lengthen the service life you can expect from your transmission.
Install a dedicated transmission temp guage to monitor the ATF temps while you drive. The idiot light will illuminate at too high a temp to do you any good; the ATF will get too hot and the damage will already be done.