RJ, most all the safety disconnects I've seen look like a battery cable clamp with a stud on the other end for the stock clamp, attaches right to the battery. Problem with installing one in the interior is the heavy gauge wire needed, that stuff is hard to route around in a tight area. You might be able to come up with very high amp relay, but it would be expensive. Why not just use the starter solenoid, it's already there? If you are concerned about the solenoid sticking and burning out the starter just rebuild it before it happens. Might be cheaper. Your idea sort of reminded me of the real old trucks before electric solenoids (pre1950), they had a foot pedal to switch on power to the starter.