extended hitch
My truck has a 2" lift on the front which makes the truck ride level with no load. I does squat about 1. 5" under load. The picture is also before I replaced the 15" tires and wheels with taller 16" tires/wheels to help level the trailer. Like klenger stated the extended hitch still places the same load over the top of the ball and does place more load on the pinbox.
Think about it... the best of all worlds is placing your load low in the bed and just an inch above the bed of your truck. This places the least side to side stress on your trucks suspension,,,,,BUT the fifth wheel type hitches are better choices for carrying a load. BUT they do suspend your load 12" or so above the bottom of your bed. That is a lever also. Damned if you do and damned if you don't...