About 1yr. ago I sold my 95 3500 with 416,000+ miles on it. My "new" 3500 will roll over 98,000 tomorrow on the way to Larado, Tx. 90% of the miles on my new one have been with a 7,000 lb (empty wt. ) trailer behind it. Usual loaded wts. will run around 20k. The new truck has been very trouble free. Power steering leak, and non-working limited slip unit, (fixed under warranty) Other than that, nothing.
Old truck was an auto, put in two trannys, second was a DTT, that solved that problem. The only thing done to the engine was a power upgrade (plate in the pump) and the valves were adjusted a couple of times. The only reason I sold it was the front suspension was gone and the power steering and vacuum pump were shot, plus I need 6 tires, all that at once and I decided to get a new one. A guy had been trying to buy it from me for a year, so I sold it and got the new one. I still see the old one on the road taking vegetables from the Rio Grande Valley to Houston. It probably has well over 500,000 miles on it now.
There are a number of Dodge trucks in this area with between 400 and 700,000 miles on them. They are all hotshot trucks.
Sorry about the long post.