bmoeller, thanks for your comments. Idle is about 800 rpm in neutral. Today, after work (about 30 degreesF), I cycled the Wait twice, just to see what it did. But I did not notice any change in the Voltmeter, light intensity, or fan speen after the Wait light extinguished. I think the grid heaters are not working, but will have to check with a voltmeter.
After waiting twice, I put about 1/4 go pedal, and the truck did fire up quickly.

I just feel that with the computer automatically controlling all the stuff that it has to control, I shouldn't have to touch anything. Most injected cars that I have driven (rentals, etc) had a warning to leave the gas pedal alone during starting, since the computer was determining all the proper mixes and speeds based on block temp and outside temp.
Well, I am trying to coordinate my schedule to get time with a fellow TDR member who has graciously offered to "help me" change the oil, filter and fuel filter (at his garage, using his tools). I am overdue on my first (to me) oil change, and I will find out what is going on with the grid heaters then. BTW, he thinks the lift pump is causing the cold weather hard-starts. Fuel pressure gauge will be my next purchase.
Thanks again for your help.
Phil