It sure gets muddy with all the optional oils available now. I know I really went through a quandry when I wanted to change over to the synthetic due to D/C recommendation. Whatever happened to the back years when all that was available was dino oil? A lot of rear ends pulled heavy loads without failure, but I know the RV's and loads now imposed on our trucks have grown.
I posted this response once before, but for what it's worth, my neighbor is the supervisor for the repair of city vehicles where I live. He stated the police cruisers use to go through rear ends like spark plugs using dino 75-90wt, so they went to 75-140wt dino oil. The failures dropped to almost nothing; his statement was, "if the cops can't tear the rearends out, no one can. " They still don't use synthetic, so who knows. All the heavy equipment uses dino oil as well, so is the sythetic worth the price? Like illflem said, it's an individual decision. I had been running the dino 75-140wt prior to this with a large overhead camper, and inspection of the gears etc. revealed all was well.