If you want low 14s, you should look at an Edge Drag comp (or a PMAX competition box which is what I would do), some SuperMental injectors (or some righteous EDM Mach 4s from Don M), and some twins.
If you want to stick with a single, I would recommend DD's Jammer turbo (like Keith described above) or a Kwikspool B1. The b1 is a great turbo, but it's not cheap. A 35/40 hybrid is right on the ragged edge of low 14s with an automatic transmission (a SERIOUS auto-- DTT, ATS, etc. . ) With a stick, you're going to be about . 3-. 5 seconds slower.
I think the main reason that the DD3s are known to make so much heat is because of atomization. To move the fuel volume you need to make 115+hp, the holes have to be large enough to where atomization quality suffers when compared to the stock injector. Poorer atomization means less fuel is burning (and more slowly), so you end up with higher EGT. If you had super-duper atomization at the same amount of fuel flow, then your burn would be faster and more complete. Since there's less fuel still burning in the exhaust, you will have lower EGT.
Personally, I would look for an EDM injector if you are are looking at the 100+ hp injector range. They are more efficient.
If you are content with under 100hp, the honed injectors are fine. I have the DD2s, and these are practically considered THE STANDARD in street performance injectors. While a honed injector may not be as cutting edge as an EDM, they are still very nice under 100hp, and DD's injectors are the finest of that type. They have really "honed" (haha) their skills, and are the ONLY non-edm injector I can recommend enthusiastically. The lower cost honed injectors (BD, etc... ) just aren't as refined as the DD injectors.
Also, since the cheap RV injectors are no more, the DD injectors are a good value as well... who would have thought?
Hope this helps.
Justin