opinion
Most 12 valve guys i've dealt with seem to have the opinion that the electronics dont affect their trucks as with the 24 valve boys.
Wrong,
As you crank the power up on your 12 valves and put in tighter converters it directly affects when the od and lock up come into to play under light throttle.
The luxury you 12 valve guys have is that you can adjust your tps to compensate for the added hp and tc.
The pcm monitors the tps signal and vehicle speed sensor to control lock up and od,
Before all the changes to your truck you were probably using 1/2 throttle to get to 30 mph , after the changes you are probably using only 1/4 throttle.
Simply by turning the tps voltage up you can delay lockup and od engagement under light throttle.
REMEMBER, action = opposite reaction.
If you are a light foot driver it makes sense to change the tps. If you are a heavy foot driver i wouldnt do it, as it will also delay lock up past the peak torque of your 12 valve under full throttle.
Personally i dont like to see od come in below 50 mph, with 354 gear ration,
with 410 gears 42 mph this is with an empty truck ,
if you guys are towing
354 gears 55-60 mph
410 gears 50-55mph
One of the benefits with locking it out manually is that everything shifts later.