rd, welcome to the TDR!
I had my trans DTT'ed about 15 years back (around 129k, now has well over 100k since then). I want to share some oddities that started happening a few years back in an effort to possibly help or at least share. This only happens when the weather starts to turn cold, about 45* or less, and whether I plug in at night or not: Start up let it run for a minute or two, then back out of the driveway (I always purposely go from any forward to reverse or vice/versa gear into neutral for a second) I slowly head down the street about 100yds to the stop and then down the road (¼ mile) to get coffee - I leave it run while inside. As I head down for coffee the trans shifts into 2nd - now here's where the oddities begin: sometimes it'll seem as it shifts right into high gear/locked converter and will chug like a standard trans that's in too high of a gear for the speed and other times it doesn't seem like it shifts to 3rd but more like the converter locks and then it'll shift right into 3rd and then right into high. When I say "right into" I mean like a half a second. What I've learned to do is, while the trans is still in low get as much speed as I can until it shifts, staying in the throttle, and when it shifts back out a little then it'll shift into whatever it's doing and I back out letting it coast down the road. If, as I approach the turn in for coffee, I forget to pop in neutral as I turn in it'll let me know by the chugging. Once it runs for a bit (however long it takes me to get coffee) it shifts fine. I've installed new transducer, solenoid and even internal (trans) wiring and it still does this. But "only when it's colder out"??? Oh forgot to mention, when it starts chugging it for sure seems like something will break badly if I don't shift in to neutral... Like you, I've learned to live with this.