Don, thanks for the input, I am not offended, I know the BHAF or OEM filter is the way to go.
My 2002 has abouth 75,000 about 15,000 with the K&N
my 1996 had about 325,000 all with a k&n when i sold it in 2000... it still is running at about 475,000. my 2000 had a replacement filter which did not meet OEM Requirements for filtration from what i read somewhere TDR? it ran for 125,000mi just fine.
I can live with 1/4 life of 1,000,000 miles
i don't think the filter is the problem, the funny sound was not there 2 months ago, maybe a louder exhaust, or a louder radio would cure my problem

thank you to all for your input