Photowrite- not so sure I coul buy a truck sight unseen and have it shipped
I completely understand, I'm quite particular, want-what-I-want, and want it my way... But I've also become slightly more relaxed as I've aged, plus I know the game well, which makes a difference.
My first experience buying a vehicle long-distance was in 2006 when I purchased a Toyota 4Runner and had it shipped up from S. Cal. In 2011 I negotiated a truck purchase over the phone, then drove 200+ miles to get it, make the deal, sign papers, and take delivery. This year I again bought sight-unseen when I purchased my Ram 2500 this past June. Prior to these deals all vehicle were special-ordered locally.
Both times I had the vehicles shipped it went well, and any niggles were appropriately addressed by the dealers. Also in both cases, the dealers had
exactly the vehicle I wanted (color, options, etc.) and I was able to purchase them below invoice, plus there were thousands in rebates. (My '14 2500 is
only a Tradesman with G56 6-speed, but the price was almost ridiculously inexpensive compared to what some are paying for the top-trim-trucks, and I like how the truck drives! It fits me.)
Of course the dealers sent me pictures of what I was buying, and you can always agree to purchase something, make a deposit, but save the final transaction and paperwork until you arrive to pickup the vehicle if you chose to do so in a reasonable amount of time. In many ways I think buying long-distance (or at least over-the-phone) is better, easier, as most of the in-store sales games can be avoided if you know how and you are dealing with that kind of dealer. Buying from a dealer that does lots of phone/internet deals should be better/easier.
Somewhat related, I helped my brother buy a new minivan over the phone a couple weeks ago; I'm a car (truck) guy, he is not. He looked locally, a local dealer didn’t want to sell the car as inexpensively, another deal in Hollywood was good, but the price and color was best in Idaho. Today he's flying from the SF Bay Area to Boise to pick-up his new car and drive it home. He will be here at our house tonight with his new family car.

This is the first new car he has purchased, and he said it was the best car buying experience he has ever had.