OK! After Thompson Chrysler got some information from Star, I took my truck in this morning to have the idle enabled on my truck.
:{ First, DC Star says that the bulletin does not apply to the ETH engine. If you want the idle feature enabled, you have to pay for it.

Second, according to Star the software is already in the ETH ECM, but the high idle is not needed because the ETH has valve timing, injection timing, and a cold weather idle fuel curve that keeps the engine warm enough to prevent valve sticking (the mian reason for the TSB being issued for the ETC engine). Conjecture on my part: The idle feature is not needed to prevent valve sticking, but it will help keep an idling ETH engine warmer.
This morning:
The technician had a lot of trouble getting his DRBIII scan tool to talk to my ECM. He tried another scan tool and repeatedly tried to turn on the 3 cylinder idle but the ECM would not accept the change. The tech then disconnected from my truck, removed the communication module from the DRB tool, dusted off the tool and module connectors and reinstalled the comm module. Then he took the DRB tool to the MDS2 shop computer and downloaded a reflash into the DRB tool for TSB 18-015-00 (Driveability Enhancements For Winter Fuel Use). Then he disconnected the DRB tool from the MDS2 shop computer, connected the DRB tool to my truck and punched through menus to get "check for updates". After about 4 minutes the DRB tool said "done". The tech then walked right to the 3 cylinder idle as outlined in the TSB and turned it on with no fuss.
The DRB tool now says that my truck has the 3 cyl idle enabled. Bring on the cold weather.
The problem that is causing frustration for ETH owners is that communication must be rock solid between the DRB tool and the ECM, or the idle enable will not take effect. I asked the tech if he had reflashed my ECM, and he said no - the purpose of checking for updates was to firmly connect the DRB tool to the ECM. After the communication had been well established, the ECM readily accepted the order to enable the idle.
The bottom line is that the ETH already has the 3 cylinder idle software in the ECM, and the idle can be enabled using the procedure from this TSB. Without the reflash procedure to get communication established between the ECM and the DRB tool, it may be difficult or impossible to get the ECM to accept the idle enable command from the DRB tool. If you can't get the idle enabled, try using the "check for updates" command to open communication.
Good luck! Dave