FASS for FREE Festivities! (Ends: February 28, 2010)

[nineback]

Just be true to your heart.



Tom

 

[Thunderbolt]

20 years of marriage have taught me a few lessons. An important one follows:

You can keep the romance alive with a small investment each payday. I call it the payday bouquet. Stop by the flower shop in town on the way home invest $10-$15 and the return is well worth it. For our 10th anniversary I got her a crystal vase with a special arrangement. Now on paydays (twice a month here) I fill it with fresh flowers. I really helps during winter to elevate her mood.

Good luck guys!

 

[Dokes]

Its not all bad!!!!

After 13 yrs. with the best advice to you would be. Do Not ever go to bed mad...

 

[DMarenberg]

Congrats!!

Good luck to all!

 

[R-N-R]

Congratulations!

1. Sex starts in the kitchen (hint: help with the dishes/cleanup)
2. You can disagree with each other when you go to sleep, but do go to sleep mad at each other
3. Whats her's is her's and whats yours is her's

 

[ViperSBT]

Marriage is more than you think

Keep in mind that marriage is not something that the government has put in place for tax benefits, but it is something that God created for man and woman.



Genesis 2:18 And the Lord God said, “ It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him. ”



Genesis 2:24 24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.



You are starting a new family, and there is no better advice that you will find for your relationship than what God put in place in his Word thousands of years ago. It is just as applicable and true now is it was back then.



May God bless all of you and your new lives that you are beginning.

 

[wleach]

Just remember that you can be right, or you can be happy. Your choice.

Congrats!

 

[Byershome]

Quitters never win and winners never quit,



Marriages only fail after one or both of you quit. Since you had enough in common to get married to begin with then with few exceptions there should never be a reason for either side to quit. I have been married 30 years and raised three children and can tell you from personal experience, love is not enough. It takes commitment and perseverance to get though those days when the love that brought you together seems a distant speck in the mirror of life. At some point though, if you hang in there, you will look back and realize the love you now feel is completely different from what you felt when you first married.



Believe it or not

 

[JSpanier]

I your wife gets grumpy and cranky or throws a huffy puffy cake, don't let it be contagious, keep your cool, be calm work it out. Remember that moment of falling in love, the time you really looked at her and thought god she is beautiful. then go wrap your arms around her. Remind her of your honeymoon on the sailboat in the caribbean, or whatever your special moments together were. Think of her often, show her this, make her a special lunch or buy a couple specialty chocolates while you are out running errands(it is the little things). Randomly get a some nice flowers for the kitchen table. Make plans big or little together. Most importantly have fun together in the bedroom, in the house, and when you are out and about or on vacation. Everyone has ups and downs, life can be hard, it is up to the two of you to see each other through. Congratulations!!!

 

[bigkavr]

Congrats to all. . This old addage is still as 100% true today as it was many moons ago.

"IF MAMA AIN'T HAPPY, NOOOOOOBODYS GONNA BE HAPPY"!!

Learn it, live it... ... ... :-laf

 

[blacksheepdiesel]

Pray (which means speaking AND listening).



Godspeed,

Trent

 

[Katman]

advice for newlyweds

Buy a little pewter vase that will hold one long stem rose and have the date of your wedding inscribed on it. Every year it will be your reference for the date of your anniversary, and you can buy a rose for it so the wife knows you haven't forgotten how great a day it is.

 

[Fitterguy]

You guys need to know 3 things. (1) She's not happy. (2) It's you're fault. (3) There's nothing you can do about it. If you can learn to live with that, you may have a chance.

FITTERGUY

 

[KHerrick]

men and women

men are problem solvers. Women do not want you to solve their problems, when she is talking to you, learn to just listen. I will be difficult, do not offer advice on how to fix it, unless she specifically asks you. Just sit and listen, you may nod occasionally, but DO NOT SPEAK unless she asks you to. You will be thought of as thoughtful and caring. Perfect.

 

[rjones]

Well Congratz!!!

My advise... . "YES DEAR" "YES DEAR" "YES DEAR" that's what I do AND I get to keep my toyz!!!!!! GOOD LUCK to you ALL!!! Oo.

 

[MQuirin]

There is a small plaque in the hall that says: "I am the boss in this house, and I have my wife's permission to say so. "

 

[WOT]

Any discussion that lasts more than one "back and forth" rember this:



think, think, ... and shut up. She'll tell you your opinion - or at least the one that will keep the peace.

 

[TPro]

Happy wife, happy home

 

[Jerry J]

Advice

simple, 'treat her like a lady and she'll be true to you'

 

[CBBLASTER]

Get in Ram and Drive for the hills!!

Just kidding

Stay honest always and get it in your head that divorce is not an option when times get tough.

Good luck fellas