FASS for FREE Festivities! (Ends: February 28, 2010)

[Hob Borchelt]

Marry Early, Marry Often.

 

[RWinzen]

Treat her how you would like to be treated. You will not agree on everything, so it's how you handle the differences. It's worked for me for over 23 years. Hey, she doesn't mind my toys, the truck and stuff.

 

[WM-300]

Never go to bed mad. If you have to stay up all night talking to fix a problem..... do it.

WM300

 

[happenin-dad]

Marriage is not the same for a guy as it is for a women. As a guy you will have expectations that will differ from your partner.

However, if you want to really enjoy & fulfill your marriage with your wife over time, pursue really getting to know her as the person she is and will become.

Embrace getting to understand her strengths and encourage her to pursue life with the gifts she has been given. A women is like a flower... . fertilizer and feed her properly and she will mature to the best looking flower you will ever experience.

On the other hand, weaknesses you identify she possesses, are nothing more than opportunities for you to LISTEN and be there to support her. Notice I did not say - solve the problem. Believe me, your wife will tell you when she wants You to solve something.

Lastly, remember both of you over time are becoming ONE. When you are young this transition is very difficult and can result in one or the other turning to someone else or something else. Always be more tempted to talk it out with your mate and be willing to say your sorry.

You truly have to be a Man to be Married and the effort you put into a marriage will truly fulfill you as a man.

BLESSINGS!

 

[RAJohnson]

Well congratulations guys Three things to know, that may benefit you in your coming years of marriage. #1 - You may be the head of the household, but your wife will be the neck. #2 - The wife will be the thermostat of the household, when she is happy all is good, when she is mad, all hell will break lose. Which brings me to #3 - I asked my grandfather some years ago, after there 60th anniversary, what was the best advice he had for being together all these years, and he said (you need to learn these two little words "YES DEAR")



P. S - And dont ever ask what the Ten year anniversary symbol is, 25 is silver & 50 is gold and my wife said at ten it was a miracle:-laf My wife and I are coming up on 21 lovely years and have three great kids to show for it.



Best of luck

 

[TWhetten]

Congrats, never stop trying to impress her

 

[WalterJ]

Future newly weds-Advice from a happy wife

We're married 43 years this August. I'm far from perfect, but she's a little closer than I. Come heck or high water, I'm able to make her laugh, at least once a day, from 8-19-67. That's it. A laugh and a smile during difficult or frustrating times, means you're back on the planet, instead of remaining out there in orbit somewhere.



Congrats & good health.

 

[flyby night]

Congratulations! When you find the answer let me know. I try real hard, but sometimes no matter what I do it is the wrong thing! Good Luck!

 

[BSmart]

First Congratulations are in order to each couple.



Second. .

Remember most ladies are not crazy about the smell of a diesel trucks exhaust...

When she is going with you, wait until she is in the truck before you startup it up.



Third... Buy her a vehicle that runs on gasoline.



These basic tips will go a long way in eliminating the "little things" that always seem to add up.



Good Luck, Bob

 

[ppgd83]

Love your wife more than yourself, Love your Savior more than your wife.

 

[DEngelhardt]

Marriage Advice

Be aware that all relationships are all about who's got the power and who wants control. Learn that it doesn't matter who's right or wrong. Back off and cool when arguments happen and tackle it later. Forgive each other and move on. I've learned that what's important today, is not even an issue for next week. Tackle issues as they arise and talk about them, don't let them grow. Above all, have fun and enjoy the gift that God has given to each of you.



Men are the logic ones that want to solve all the problems. Women are the emotional ones. Each side helps to keep the other in check and to make better decisions.



And when all else fails, taking long walks seems to work well.



Good luck.

 

[mtnram]

The best advice I can offer is to get all the goodies you want for your truck now!

You won't hear the end of it later.

Foot massages might get you some small stuff. DAMHIK.

 

[GBatt]

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FASS for FREE for ME, gbatt

 

[DMattson]

Never say anything bad about her or call her anything bad, everything else can be worked out but a woman will never forget anything you ever say about her.

 

[Ace476]

Advice for the three guys

I would tell you from my experience of 42 years is this:



What a man needs most from his wife and life partner is

respect.



What a woman needs most from her husband and life partner

is to be cherished.



"Learn her love song and when she forgets it sing it back to

her. "



Mark

 

[Majjoe]

Hey Guys here is my advice. Make sure your new wife can still drive --- read on :

" A senior citizen said to his eighty-year old buddy:

'So I hear you're getting married?'

'Yep!'

'Do I know her?'

'Nope!'

'This woman, is she good looking?'

'Not really. '

'Is she a good cook?'

'Naw, she can't cook too well. '

'Does she have lots of money?'

'Nope! Poor as a church mouse. '

'Well, then, is she good in bed?'

'I don't know. '

'Why in the world do you want to marry her then?'



'Because she can still drive!'



Seriously, good luck to all of you. I've been married to my high school sweetheart for 40 years and we're blessed. If you're not in church get in church and God will bless your marriage.

 

[Elk Hunter]

The best advice I can give after 30+ years of marriage is to let her know you LOVE her on a daily basis, communicate, and always listen to what she has to say. God Bless and may you have many happy years together.

 

[Bigiron]

First off Congrats to all. I've been married for 30 years in Sept. I guess what works for us is no matter what, we have always been each others best friend. Always keep the ability to make each other laugh. Always tell her you love her when you leave, It may be the last thing she heard from you.

 

[JPosey]

Poz

Best advice Me and My wife were given 31 years ago by our preacher during pre marrige counsiling was simple and and the best advice of our lives.



1. Never squeeze the tooth paste from the middle.

2. Never leave the toilit seat up.

3. Never go to bed mad or agrivated at each other over a disagreement.

4. Treat each other as you would want to be treated as an equal , and remember your are now one with joint decission making.

 

[JohvinP]

Congrats everyone. Take it from me, another newlywed. Remember these three things:



1) Yes dear.

2) I am sorry.

3) I wont do it again.



Just trust me, you were wrong. If you think anything else=she will be ****** off... ...



It takes work.



JP