Well, I do have a temp probe in both 6 speed and rear diff. SPA series 2 gauges to be exact. I also went from the OEM lube to Amsoil series 3000 5W-30 synthetic lube in my 6 speed when I installed my Fastcoolers, as well as Amsoil series 2000 75W-90 synthetic gear lube in both front & rear diff. I also have a MagView cover on both diffs, though no probe in the front diff, only the rear.
I do not tow or haul much, so I can not tell you what differences the Fastcoolers make under those circumstances.
I live in the Sacramento area of California, and our summer temps easily get between 105* - 110*+, and driving home up into the Sierra foothills, it puts a small load on the transmission and diffs.
While the truck is moving, my transmission temps always average between 15 - 25* cooler than the rear diff. When you are sitting still, the transmission warms up to be about even with the rear diff. So, in my own experience, on my truck, I say the Fastcoolers work very well.
Tom