Is this specifically .223 or including 5.56 brass? One has to do something to deal with crimped primer pockets, be it swaging or reaming.
What are you seeing as far as failure? Primers falling out, flash hole opening up?
Primarily, I had 5.56 LC ammo in mind, despite my typing .223..... The crimp has to be removed, but many people overestimate how much swage is left after de-priming the cartridge. It's brass, so much of the swage is taken out by the removal of the primer. I've reloaded many rounds without swaging or reaming, but only on LC, ADI, or IMI brass. Swaging is the best method, IMO, although with the LC brass I've had headstamped since '02, just a simple, light, taper ream removes most all the crimp. A power reamer works great for this, I've found. The IMI seems to be a tighter pocket, as is the ADI. I have limited experience with the ADI, having only had around 4krounds of brass to play with, all '10 or '11 headstamp. The stiffer/harder, CCI Arsenal primers can be a problem here, and the brass will have to be opened up to use them. But with Fed205M primers, I haven't had any problems with tight primer pockets.... And that brass usually lasts longer. I have had only two slam fires with the Fed205s.
Brass life depends on loading, obviously, but the biggest failure I see is split necks. The larger necks cut in the chambers of the AR rifles is the biggest culprit here, as most dies over-resize the brass. Most times, you only need .003-5 pulled out to cycle in your rifle reliably. This may limit it's use in other rifles, but it prolongs your brass life. If you're pulling .008-.010 out of your brass when reloading, it's not going to make but 3-4 cycles. There are some large chambered rifles out there that can take a cartridge wrapped in tape and fire it!! Reloading die makers work off SAAMI specs; they have no idea what your chamber is.... That's why we have bushings in our resizing dies for benchrest reloading.... That's over the top for AR shooters, I think, considering most want a bullet crimp.... Also, the more you resize the brass, the more it will "grow" and have to be trimmed.
The second failure rate is usually in 5.56 brass, in the primer pockets. Many, many of my fellow shooters complain of dropped primers in the magazines.... Well, that's after 2-3 reloadings, so it's interesting to me. Why are they doing that? The one, common denominator I find in all of them, is that the rounds are all swaged or reamed. Looking into it further, I find many of them are using RCBS swaging dies, and taking the calipers to them reveals a somewhat large swaging die in the head of their setup.... IMO, if that head die were reduced by .002-3, it would extend the primer pocket life a great deal....
In the .223 brass, I see quite a few failures, but usually to quality of brass, I think. The Remington brass seems to get brittle after 2-3 firings, and if it's not annealed, it will split the next shooting. Primer pockets hold up well in the Remington brass, unless the reloader is using a power primer pocket cleaner.... At Tulsa Red Castle a few years back, an older gentleman brought his grandson to shoot 600yds. He was having a really hard time staying on target, and after a few curses and obvious frustrations, the Match Director asked them to quit shooting. They had crossed over targets several times, and were hitting all over the place, including over the berm. After the match, they hung around to shoot some more, and my Dad asked to stay and help them. They were shooting 75gr Hornady A-max, in a Remington SPS bolt gun. First thing, we inspected the brass, and there were quite a few loose primers... I managed to knock one or two out, and the primer pockets weren't even round.... The older gentleman had reloaded them, and after some questions, he said he had had a problem getting the carbon out of some of them, so he held them a little longer under his powered primer pocket cleaner brush.... Then we noticed he has some different bullets loaded, so we suggested he shoot some of them. He only had 20 rounds or so loaded, I think they were 69gtr Sierras or 68gr Hornady match.... either way, he managed to stay on paper for 10 rounds, so we suggested he change bullets, work on his brass processing, and try again next month. He was on paper, but I can't say he would have bumped anyone from the top 10.... or 25.

But the fact he had his grandkid out shooting is a good thing, IMO. AND, he was reloading himself. Anyway, I'm getting off track. I've seen several primer pockets destroyed by power tools, so be careful there. Every last trace of carbon doesn't have to be removed......
I don't see many flash holes going away, unless the load is way too hot. Then you usually see broken gas rings and excessive carbon fouling in the ARs, not to mention split necks and flattened primers

. Someone told me a while back that they were beginning to see some problems here from the CCIArsenal primers.... anyone have a comparison chart on heat for these primers vs. Fed, Rem, Win, BR-4?

I don't know how the arsenal primers could be causing issues, here. I haven't used many of them, yet, though. I've been going to see what they're doing on the primer pockets for the crimp removal. I'd wager is has something to do with that powered reaming tool.....