One more consideration and the icebreaker for me is that should the unit fail, with the GV unit you still have your regular gears and can continue onward. You just don't have reverse. I often tow my 4 horse trailer full of horses and the thought of being stranded with the horses, should the unit fail, made my decision for me. If the US Gear unit fails you are stuck.
I have heard of both units failing. I am not sure of the cause of US Gear failures. The most common cause for GV unit failures is using it during deceleration. It won't last long if this is done, especially if equipped with an exhaust brake. Normal changes experienced while in cruise and in OD are not a problem, just when decending hills or coming to a stop. You can learn to live with this shortcoming.
I have had my GV for about 40,000 miles, most of it towing. I have over 400hp and have had no problems. Until you get used to shifting, there is the characteristic clunk, but with practice this can be eliminated both on upshifts and downshifts.
I know a number of people use it in drag racing applications with automatics. Lots of horsepower and hard shifts. It seems to do real well under these conditions.
Also, you can't use the GV unit while in 4X4, where you can use the US Gear. During my numerous times in 4X4 I haven't really encountered a situation where I needed to split the gears. the torque of the Cummins just pulls you on through.
Just some more things for you to think about. I know it is a tough decision and it took me 6 months to make mine. If it wasn't for the possibility of becoming stranded, I may have made a different decision - or then again I might still be trying to decide.