I have backfed the main pannel thru a 220v outlet. It works, but there is a danger of frying yourself, your generator, or somebody else. Electricity is not forgiving.
The first problem is that you have to shut off the main. How do you know when the power is restored?
If you don't shut off the main, you could fry a somebody repairing the lines somewhere else.
Another scary part of it is the suicide cord. If you (or anybody trying to hook it up in your absense) makes contact with the bare prongs of the plug for your dryer outlet while the generator is running.....
It is also very easy to overload your generator. (since everthing in the house is now hooked to it)
I bought a generator transfer switch for mine before I killed somebody. It was a pretty easy install and it provides for up to 6 circuits to be switched to aux power while the rest of the house is still on-line. It has a place to plug in the generator with a normal type cord (one male & one female end) I think I have fridge, microwave, boiler, sump pump, and a couple light circuits on it.