Girlfriend has a phone stalker

[Shovelhead]

Just remember,

Friends will help you move,

REAL friends will help you move bodies.

 

[NPloysa]

By the way, this guy is not threatening her, just bothering her. He, as far as she has told me, is not being mean, being very nice actually, but doing it nonstop is harrassment.



What she is worried about, as you could probably tell, is what will happen when she tells him to stop? How will he react? Will he take it like a man or whine and cry, then get mean and threatening?



Nick

 

[silverram03]

They always sound nice. Till you read about them in the paper. If she is serious about ending the constant phone calls go to the police. They will have the best solution if any. My whole family is in law enforcement, and have heard almost everything. Hope this helps.

 

[Camara]

Go get him. we can take him out fishing. I'll make a fresh pair of custom cement shoes for him. (hahaha) Only kidding.

 

[nickleinonen]

Only kidding

right :-laf

 

[Hummin Cummins]

you answered your own question

Big group of guys

Hmmmmm, maybe a TDR blanket party on this wacko?



I'm in

 

[JConley]

Get the guys phone number and post it on the Internet as a free phonesex hotline. His phone will be too busy to call her

 

[bmoeller]

That should work! :-laf

 

[dpuckett]

I realize most dont possess my callous disregard for the life of such dogs, but... .



I'd say get her a pistol, training, then a concealed carry permit. Tell her the line from the Louis L'Amour books- Dont pull a gun unless you intend to shoot; dont shoot unless you intend to kill. In other words, if she couldnt pull the trigger, dont even get her the pistol. Some martial arts/ self defense training may be in order. And remember, ANYTHING can be a deadly weapon in the right (wrong?) hands. -:laf



Or, you could have a midnight TDR meeting in his driveway. I really would doubt his military background, just for the fact that most of the REAL bada$$es keep it to themselves. But you never know. Those Arkie rednecks are sore losers, esp when a woman is involved.



As a last resort, a new phone number may be in order. That or your G-F needs to take lessons from my ex. I taught her well, but it came around to bite me in the butt.



Daniel

 

[3atatime]

Originally posted by NPloysa

My girlfriend met a guy online (never in person) before she met me and talked with him online and over the phone. He became "weird" as she put it and now he keeps calling her.



Three times a day he calls, she never answers it and I think that is whats upsetting him. From what I can tell he is not good at letting go at even a simple online friendship.



She is sick of him



How can she end this? He isn't the type to listen or leave her alone responsibly. Pretty sad if you ask me.



Hmmmm! Sounds like my sperm donor (and many others that have been in my life). Trust me dude. He'll NEVER leave her alone!

Kat

 

[bmoeller]

Originally posted by dpuckett

Or, you could have a midnight TDR meeting in his driveway.

Would give a whole new meaning to a Wrench Day.

 

[tpuig]

Why don't you just answer the phone for her? Everytime. He'll hopefully get the idea. Tell him she gave you the phone when you got engaged. Hearing a male voice may just end his fantasy.



... and if not...



If he's using govt/law enforcement lookup resources for personal use, he can be in a world of hurt... . Record checks leave trails.



If he's just a wanna-be internet geek who doesn't actually have a clearance, then a short and terse phone call from someone in an authorithy position (or posing as such) mayend it all as well.



Hope this helps.

TP

 

[XcumminsX]

give me his # and i will set up my fax to call his number every 10 minutes