Having more pain than ever in my life

[IC Smoke]

Chris, our deepest condolences to you and your family. As stated above youve got ample shoulders here at TDR. I pray for you in this time of need. you'll be strong and get thru this along with your children. Words just cant say how you must feel.



If you need anything let me know.

Ian

 

[Spyke]

Chris,



Sorry to hear about your loss. I lost Cindee July 2004 in a head-on accident also, after a very short 37 month marriage. We didn't have any children because it took me 38 yrs to find her. I have learned a few things thou the first week is the easiest part because the funeral happens and we go along with it, the tought part starts when the friends and family start leaving you alone a little bit to get on with your life so to say. Stay strong for yourself and your children. Do not be affraid to tell people how you really feel, if your day stinks tell them, because it feels better then telling them you are doing okay. Lastly stay busy PM me if you want to talk



Steve

 

[RobertP]

Chris,



my prayers go out to you and your family. i am very sorry to hear about your loss. stay strong for yourself and your family. always remember that you have friends every where you go that can help you on your path in life.

My heart goes out to you and your family during your time of need.

Robert

PS. im always hear to talk to.

 

[Nightram]

Chris,



I just read your post, all I can say is I am truly sorry for your great loss. It is a very tough situation you are in, but remember to keep your head up, and take each day one at a time. We are all here for you if you need us!



Corey Kanas

 

[Amianthus]

Chris, I just found out today. I am so sorry for your loss. Please, accept my sincere condolences. There is no question that this hurts. You always spoke very highly of carrier and of how lucky you were that you had met. I am truly sorry.



If there's anything you need, ANYTHING AT ALL, please let me know.



Aron

 

[Duluth Diesel]

My biggest fear in life is what you are going through right now. I have a 2 year old son and 6 month old daughter, and I know that I would be lost without my wonderful bride. I cannot fathom the loss that you feel. I'm so, so deeply sorry. Be strong for your children; you are their rock. If you need the MN boys up here to lend a hand or an ear, by all means let us know. Remember that you are not alone, and there are good people who will help you though this.



-Chuck

 

[dieselboy25]

Chris,

My heart is breaking thinking about your situation. I pray for God to give you the strength, courage and wisdom to endure this terrible lose. As you can see by all of the outpouring of support, we are here for you in any way that you may need here in Iowa and beyond.



Take very good care of yourself and your children,

Eric

 

[loncray]

I'm not the praying type, but you've certainly got my thoughts and best wishes. This place is full of good caring people who will happily provide you whatever you need - you have but to let us know.

 

[crebelein]

I can not even imagine what you must be going through. Having held together as well as you have thus far shows tremendous character. Hang in there and take things day by day and don't be afriad to ask your friends and family for support. I'm sure things will get easier as time passes.



You and your family are in our prayers...

 

[fkovalski]

When they say that you have 20,000+ brothers here… believe them! I do not know you, but for some reason I am welling up with tears and emotion as I type this. I have no words that can comfort you. I pray to my God in my own way, but my thoughts are with you.



Where I live in the mountains, I see my God’s work everyday in the beauty that surrounds me. Perhaps you will still hold a God in your heart after this tragic event and maybe you will again see the wonderful beauty around you. You may even see a new cherished wonder that is your wife that God made. God may have taken her so that now everyone around you will see the person that you knew … if they would only look AND see.



Respectfully,

-frank.

 

[Alphacowboy]

Chris... . seriously, your story has hit me pretty hard for some reason! All I can think about is you and your family. Honestly, all day today, all I could think about at work was what you must be going through. If you need ANYTHING man, please do not feel shy at all to ask any of us here! This to has become my biggest fear in life since I got married... . its amazing how things change when you tie the not, you are more cautious about what you and your other half do! I can only imagine how it gets when kids get involved! Chris, you have all my prayers that I can spare my friend, just trust in the Lord to help you through, and you will make it! But it does help to have a shoulder here on earth as well to lean on, and you got 20k + shoulders here!



God Bless!



-Matt



(PS: headlight is on its way my friend!)

 

[SpicyJam]

Chris I just found out after talking with Aron. I don't even know what to say. My heart goes out to you... ... . I know I am full of emotion... ... . and really lost for anything to say.



Just please keep in touch my thoughts are with you, Jim.

 

[JoshPeters]

Chris, Don't forget about us here with the MNTDR, we are close. If there is ANYTHING you need, let us know.



Shoot any of us a call.

Josh

612 232 2061

 

[Truckie]

Chris I am so sorry for you loss. As stated before there really are no words to comfort someone in this situation. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your children.

If it helps to talk about it than do it.

I have more than enough seen young lives taken way to quick and harshly like this, and all I can think or say is. They held so much love and gave so much that there is no more they can give to us here on earth and GOD has called upon them to help him in heaven.

If there is anything I can do to help pleas ask or PM and I will do what ever I can to help.





Mike

 

[lil red cummins]

chris,



by post 54 of this thread, it is obvious that you have touched all of our hearts. those of us that have not shared this type of tragedy personally, surely realize we are but a heartbeat away from your situation on any given day.



you will never be without the friendship of this great group. i am crying while typing this and not ashamed to admit it. if you need anything at all from us, at any time, we are only 1 post away.



above all else, when you can't imagine what your life will be like in the future, remember all the good things that happened in your life with your beautiful wife and wonderful children. the memories can never be taken away and they will be what you need to keep you moving forward. the sight of your children is evidence enough of you and your wife's positive contribution to this world.



with my deepest sympathies and supportive thoughts for your future.



jim h

 

[DieselTweaker]

Chris



I dont know what to say other than Im sorry to hear about your loss. From the sounds of it you have alot of good friends and family around you, plus your extended family here. My heart goes out to you and your family.

 

[Ol'TrailDog]

Hey Spyke... I'm confident that all that's been said goes for you also if you get in to feeling the blues.

 

[kcv67]

I have been thinking and praying for you since I found this post. I just do not know what to say. I am sorry for you loss and I will keep praying for you.



Casey

 

[Matt S]

Chris,

I'm sorry for your loss and I will pray for you and your children.



Matt

 

[Elite1]

Chris, My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. I can't really think of anything especially comforting to say. Take it one day at a time, Your children will need you to comfort them & be there for them. You will get through this, time will heal your wounds... hang in there. Please PM me anytime, if you need help with anything, let me know. God Bless, Marty