tmacc - I'm tellin' ya man, if there's a car company out there that you don't have to worry about the 1st year of a vehicle, it is Toyota. I work at Toyota Technical Center as a design engineer. You have never seen any group of people more anal about 100% quality from the 1st car off the line to the last. I've had to have seats built, that have a slight quality tweak to them, JUST IN CASE A CUSTOMER EVER MADE A COMPLAINT! There has never been a complaint regarding this and the seats are just sitting on a shelf waiting. Now that's anal, and Toyota does stuff like that every d@mn day.
I've got a 4Runner (that's getting in the mid-20's to and from work (city/hwy), but its a manual and I'm a patient driver) and that truck is an absolute pleasure to drive. I'll take it before the big ram, unless I have to haul, tow, or the wife's gone in the 4Runner. And I have a 1990 Celica (that was a first year (for that body style)) that has 172,000+ miles and still drives quiet and good, with good power and gets 36+ mpg. The point is, I think you'd be unbelievably surprised with a first year Highlander. If you haven't driven one, I highly suggest you talk the missus into seeing one and driving it, and just see what you think.
Also, the new Rav4's look much better, and they get good fuel mileage. But, in the previous model, they used a high revving little weaney motor. Too loud on the interstate, I don't know if that changed for the new vehicle or not.
- JyRO