Vaughn, I have extensive experience with this particular endeavor.

Take the head in and have it checked/decked. If you can get your hands on a straight edge, clean the block, "block" sand it too, then check it with a true edge. If you're going to put in 60# springs, now is the time. You can have a valve job done too and replace the seals if you want it just right.
Your injector retaining nut is a 15/16 deep, I think. The lug nut from your Ram will fit on your injector. Shame on you pulling your head without taking the injectors out first... Using a picker to lift and lower that head is a good idea not only to save body strain, but to ensure no scraping of the head or worse,
damaging the new head gasket.
The studs are debatable. If I were you, I'd spend less money, have it O-ringed, then use new stock bolts. Yes, bolts have issues, but I happen to know of at least one person running regular 80lbs boost and never blown a head gasket; just O-ringed and stock bolts. Do at least 2 re-torques (Piers or Jason can advise on this). Do not forget to do a valve adjustment after each head torquing!!!!!!
As far as thickness of head gaskets, there is an issue of compression with a single turbo: material off of head+thin gasket+high boost (How high? Don't know where the line is... ) = danger. The thicker the gasket, the less your drive pressure will contribute to excessive compression (or so I understand). Of course, spooling can be an issue with lower compression... but a PDR HX35 will solve that!

See how much has to come off your head and go from there...
Don't forget to clean and dry your bolt holes in the block, and put anti-seize on your injector retaining nuts.
BTW, if you haven't replaced the rubber fuel return line, NOW IS THE TIME!! So hard to get to with the head on, so easy with it off...
Enjoy!!
