Jeff - Don't worry about your frame with the Ranchhand combo bumper/grill. I've got the 3" double pipe combo on my '96 and it is not a problem. If the wimpy frames on the Cheby and Pherds can handle these bumpers so can your RAM. Drive through Central, South, or West Texas and see how many of these combo bumpers are around... no problems. Ranchhand can be found at:
http://www.ranchhand.com
Personally, I've had good luck with mine. I've never had any damage from deer or other criters, and I have hit a few.
Another source you might be interested in is the bumpers from Rough Country. They look fairly solid. I'm waiting for a report from someone on them.
http://www.roughcountry.net
The nice thing about ranchhand is you can keep all your bumpers, headache racks, bed rail caps, and tool boxes the same style. That really looks sharp... .....
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1996 Black 4x4 2500 SLT Laramie CC, Auto, 4. 10, Ranch Hand Double 3" Pipe Front Bumper, Ranch Hand Rear Bumper,
K&N Filter, Boost & Trans Temp Gauges, Trimble 10x GPS, Silencer Ring removed.