Probably the best fix would be to mill the head as needed to remove the grooves, about . 020” to . 030” deep. Use the 3283339 gasket which is . 020” thicker, either a stock gasket or a Haisley gasket. It is OK to sink the valves a little and to reface them to get maybe another . 010” valve inset. Stock inset is about . 050” to . 055” from the head surface. If you choose another fire ring gasket, get the grooves cut to meet Haisley's specifications. I suggest Kells Automotive in Las Vegas since you live there. They also know how fine a finish you need on the head surface. Most shops use far too rough a surface finish.