Scott,
I know this sounds like one of those questions that is so obtuse that you don't consider it, but have you tried removing your front driveshaft and testing to see if your symptoms still persist. This would at least perhaps help you further narrow down your issue. I hate you have had such a myriad of issues, but your experience is not consistent with other second gen owners that I know. I have quite a few acquaintances with second gens that seem to thrive on neglect. Please don't take this as making light of your issue. I am perplexed by the issues you are having, and would have thought that the with the addition of the medium duty tires/rims that you would be geared to go.
I know this sounds like one of those questions that is so obtuse that you don't consider it, but have you tried removing your front driveshaft and testing to see if your symptoms still persist. This would at least perhaps help you further narrow down your issue. I hate you have had such a myriad of issues, but your experience is not consistent with other second gen owners that I know. I have quite a few acquaintances with second gens that seem to thrive on neglect. Please don't take this as making light of your issue. I am perplexed by the issues you are having, and would have thought that the with the addition of the medium duty tires/rims that you would be geared to go.