Okay, first off... . Cuyahoga Falls... . just saw that. My SIL was a surgeon there... . hope you never met her..... squirrel...
First off, I don't deliberately hide anything from my wife. She has her money, and I have mine... . which she uses...

She's a good one, though. She only uses my money on the house and kids. If she wants something, she uses her money. She only complains if I complain about money... or she gets tired of mowing around the Dodges in my yard... . usually the latter. I have, however, not mentioned certain things to her. I won't deliberately omit anything, but I may not mention it..... As for guns, she never complains about that, as it's something I did before she came along, and she likes to shoot, too. That kind of money is pretty big money for some people, and if it's gonna cause a big problem, I'd suggest coming clean. They'll find out, sooner or later, usually. And with all the "assault rifle" BS on the TV, she'll probably recognize it as something you didn't have before..... Now, if she's not gonna care as long as you have the money for it, then I'd start saving my money and tell her you want to buy something..... And if you put it on a credit card, she's gonna see it anyway, if she pays the bill..... And you need to get that paid off before you have to pay the interest on it!!!

IMO, everyone should do without a little more, put some money in savings, and pay off what they have as soon as they can. If we see another fiasco like Fannie Mae/Freddie Mac, it may cause a lot more damage than the last time... . I think you'd be better off with a house and the money to pay the bills than a 72" TV sitting on the bare floor of your apartment you don't have electricity to turn on. Turn off the cable, the TV, the Playstation, and go paint the trim on the South end of the house before it rots out. Put your stupid I-phone down and go till the small garden in the back yard so you have organic vegatables for your table. Turn off your laptop and get off Facebook and go change your own oil in your CTD(as I'm sitting here watching it rain while I'm on TDR!!

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I've always been honest with my wife. I won't lie to her. And because of that, she trusts me. And I do what's right and make sure I have everything else taken care of before I get something on my want list. If I can't afford it, I don't buy it. That mentality, a work ethic, and mostly God's good grace has paid off my ranches, trucks, and house. I may not have much that's new, but it's paid for.