There is not anything that you can do to find out what you got before you put them in other than take them to an injection shop and have them flow tested. Even that likely will only give you an idea, I really don't think or expect DD to tell you what flow rates they make for each stage.
Put them in and dyno them, the only way to know for sure, and like others have said there is a window that each stage will make.
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Fuel economy if you use the power from the larger injectors WILL drop. If you drive the same as before it will not change.
Injectors last a LONG time. Even if they had 75K miles on them they will go a lot longer.