purpose
Originally posted by Champane Flight
When your dead your dead, it does not matter what flag you have draped over your casket, you are still just as dead. Maybe you will have to hand one to a mother of a dead soldier sometime, the look in their eyes will tell it all. It is like "I once had a living breathing child in my arms, I now have a flag?" It maybe a honorable way to die, but still a waste.....
... Now that would be a honorable death, to have your memory honored by the peace you caused, not by the wars you fought...
Let's go further into debunking more myths, shall we?? To say that "when you are dead, you are dead" isn't exactly profound. What matters is not how or when you die, but how you LIVED. Some people live 80 years and have little to show for it, others live a lifetime before they are 40. So the idea that ANY death is a waste is simply untrue. Some people did little when they were alive, and while I wish that it weren't true, the fact is that some people's deaths aren't much of a waste because they were never much to begin with. I also feel that, to be honest, I have to mention that I believe that God created each of us with a purpose, and that living our lives apart from Him is TRULY a "waste". So, I don't see much difference between living with no purpose and dying with no purpose. Others will disagree, but to me, the reason every life has value is because we have PURPOSE. The further we are from that purpose, the less value we have realized. In God's eyes, we all are priceless- would Jesus have died for us if we weren't? Want proof that your life can be significant even if shortened? Jesus died at 33, and changed history, the world, and the very human condition in only three short years of activity! Shoot, our years are numbered relative to Him! (2003 AD)
i *HAVE* handed a flag to a grieving widow or grieving mother on a number of occasions. I HAVE looked into their eyes, and i see something you don't: pride. Peace. There's a certain dignity that's there, and a certain peace that comes from knowing that someone died as part of something larger than themselves- knowing that their loved one's life was NOT a waste. Few people have that assurance at their time of grief, and it is a comfort to them.
As for your last statement, here is the CORRECT way to state it:
"Now that would be an honorable death, to have your memory honored for the peace you caused BY the wars you fought"
Peace is not the opposite of war-- it is the goal of war.
HOHN