Before the last injector change I checked at the local de. . uhhh st. . well dealer, and they would not sell me the o-rings by themselves. They wanted me to buy the complete set of connector tubes. I decided to take my chances and after having at least as many changes as yours on them, they appear to still be working fine. I know that is pushing it though and have been very easy on them. I didnt think of putting oil on them, but that sounds like a good plan.
If someone knows of a good source for them, that would be helpful.