I had the same thing about a year ago on my 02.
The valve guides and seals were worn. The exhaust side had some of the seals blown off and missing some of the rubber. My truck would burn some oil when i started. I believe pulling hard from Va. to Alaska didnt help any. Egt's were between 1,100 and 1,250 for 5,000 miles. It even melted the mud flap :-laf.
Other then the valves every thing looked good. All i did was put in new valve guide seals and lap the valves. Got another head in the work.
The valve stem should be at a min of 0. 2752in to a max of 0. 2760, and the valve guide bore should be ? (my factory service manual shows checking it but does not give the number as to what it should be, maybe some one can tell us).
Hope this could be some help to you. Have some pics if it may help.