sounds like bill is correct , your reverse problem is the same as your 3rd gear problem , they both use the same set of clutches in the high gear drum . minimum is to pull the trans and pull out the front pump and clutch packs , check them both , you will probably find the steels discolored and the clutches a bit thin , also check the seals in the high gear drum , the factory seal can allow fliud to get past which does not hold the clutches as tight as they would like . what year and how many miles , a VB would be a good idea , its the reverse /drive of snowplowing that can be real harsh on a stock auto .