Rusty, does Dodge with the 68rfe, recommend that both overdrives (5th & 6th) be turned off when towing?
No, just stick it in tow/haul mode and let the computers manage the powertrain. If you think it's hunting, you can use the shift lever buttons to lock 6th out, but I've never had to.
I have no idea what 60 MPH would be in 4th - I've never had to run there.
Rusty