Your spouse to do cold 1st , then after at least 1 heat cycle , that means the 2nd time after it heats and then cools off , also in the factory man. an angle gauge , I do not have one with me to give you the exact spec. but it was something like all bolts to 66 ft. lbs. starting in middle of head and progressing from side to side and to front to back , then all the 12mm bolts in the same patern to about 87 ft. lbs , then an additional 60 deg. using the angle gauge , this gets a little complicated to tell ya when I know I have a bad memory.
Then some times you get a deferant spec. with diff. gasgets or with after market bolts .