If it turns out that this is the problem, would it just be better to replace the ECM to avoid further pronlems down the line with some other issue.
My personal feeling is no... if this is the only problem the ECM is having, then it's a lot more cost effective and simpler to power the lift pump via a different circuit with a relay and a fuse.
I say this because new ECM's are no longer available, so at a minimum you're looking at getting a used ECM from someplace like eBay with an unverifiable history and then no assurance the same problem won't happen again. You'll also need to make sure a used ECM has EXACTLY the same firmware to match the version you currently have. There are two reasons for this: 1. Using the wrong software for your particular engine / transmission configuration can create all sorts of strange behaviours (no wait to start light, no lift pump activation, no intake heater activation, etc. ). 2. It's not possible to change the ECM firmware to another configuration in the field. This can only be done using specialized equipment that even a Dodge dealer doesn't have. This is a failsafe feature in the normal programming equipment (Chrysler DRBII scan tool) to prevent mechanics from inadvertently flashing the completely wrong firmware into an ECM when attampting to load an upgrade.
If you buy a so-called refurbished ECM from one of the several rebuilders on the Internet for around $875, that can be a real crap-shoot because some of these questionable sellers seem to barely even clean the devices before shipping them out to customers without even bothering to test them first. I've read where customers had to send back one or two "rebuilt" ECM's before getting one that worked properly. On the positive side, these sellers will (should) be able to load the correct firmware for your configuration, so that wouldn't be an issue.
Cummins and Dodge sell rebuilt ECM's which should be trustworthy, but in excess of $1500. They're often subject to lengthy backorders. Then you still have to have the correct firmware loaded by Dodge or Cummins after the ECM has been installed on the engine... at an added cost of course.
I don't mean to sound so negative about getting an ECM, but honestly a lift pump power problem is easily worked around at a very low cost. IMHO, it just doesn't rise to the level justifying a complete ECM replacement.
Best regards,
John L.