I have to say that I'm getting tired of the discourtesy that seems increasing daily, not just here on the TDR, but everywhere. People seem to have learned the 'rules' by rote, without ever realizing that there's a reason behind those rules. Most of us are indeed being sheep, in that we put up with it, never calling the offender on their misbehavior, because we ourselves, do not wish to be rude.
No one seems to realize that standing in line is the best substitute ever invented for an unruly mob. If you don't believe this, then you haven't seen the footage of food being handed out in impoverished countries where either no one knows how or cannot afford to stand in line. Most of the rice or flour ends up on the ground.
I can see how, if you were taught to say, "Thank you" when someone does something for you, without ever being given any understanding why you say it, that you would be a 'sheep' if you said it. The fact is, it is a man to man exchange, an acknowlegement that someone has done something for you, and an admission that you owe them a debt. It doesn't matter if they passed the sugar or saved your house from the flood, it's something you rear up on your hind legs and recognize.
It's a free country. You don't have to follow any damm rules if you don't want to. But the rest of follow them because we acknowlege that there's a reason for them, that we are members of a society, and that our society works better because of it.
So if I told you that someone did a scientific study sometime somewhere, and they found that people found lower case easier to read, would you believe me? If we put a poll in 'Other' and ask what people prefer to read, would you go along with the opinion of the majority? Would it cost you anything to turn off your Caps-Lock key?
If BigDaddy came along and helped someone and they didn't even bother to thank him, would he help them again?
Matt