David, As bad as the factory wiring design is, I think the plow harness is as bad or worse. I know Boss Plows went to relay-operated harness shortly after I bought my plow, so they obviously encountered problems. They make the Dodge parts counter look like a Dollar General Store when it comes to prices on replacement parts, though, and will not upgrade my harness.
In stock configuration, the Boss harness plugs directly into the Dodge harness down at the headlights. The wiring is all diverted to a toggle switch in the cab before being sent back to both the factory headlights and the plow lights. The toggle is a 6-wire switch that selects between the factory headlights or the plow headlights (you cannot run both). The parking lights and turn signals on both the truck and the plow work at the same time, though.
That is a lot of feet of wiring running all the way back and forth to the cab and through one switch! A very dumb design and a recipe for disaster given the Dodge headlight switch problems. The toggle gets very hot just like the factory headlight switch, and I have had to replace it a couple of times, too. The wires at the connectors get brown and crispy just like the dash switch harness.
The halogen sealed beams on the plow are very good lights, nonetheless. But they need their own relays (2), one for high beams and one for lowbeams. The trigger wires for the relays need to run to a switch inside the cab as before. That switch still needs to allow me to select which headlights I want since the plow blocks the factory headlights when installed.
As for the Sportlights, I just want them wired to light up like the SUV harness would do it, if everyone here that has them is happy with that arrangement.
The Sterns website seems to indicate there isn't any need for 4 relays since good relays with dual output connections are more than capable of powering a pair of headlights each. But maybe I missed something?
First, I need to understand the bulbs. Currently, my understanding is that Sportlights take one 9007 and one 9004 bulb. Each bulb has both a high and a low filament. Is this correct?
The choices then are: Which filaments do you want lit on low beam and which ones on high beam?
Then the decision comes to: How many relays are necessary to light up those filaments?
After that, it becomes a matter of selecting which of the factory wires is the appropriate trigger for each set of beams.
I know from installing that generic relay harness (supposedly custom designed for the Dodge), that I have one wire per headlight that switches polarity. That caused me some problems and I think is why the relay harness helped my highbeams and did absolutely nothing for my lowbeams.
That makes me suspicious of having switched-negative leads, rather than positive. maybe that chinese harness is just wired wrong for the truck? It was supposed to be plug-n-play.
Because of that, I think wiring my relays to work with both switched-positive AND switched-negative as the trigger wires, as shown on the Sterns website, would be the smart decision.
The trigger wires must run through a switch like they do now that will allow me to select either truck or plow lights, which means having separate relays for the plow lights.
This sounds more complex than it really is, I'm sure. But if I have made any sense and you or anyone else thinks you can help with the design of a harness, I would greatly appreciate it. Connectors to make things plug-n-play into the factory harness, as well as headlight sockets, relay sockets, and dual-output relays are no problem, so don't get hung up on them.
Thanks! Scott